well i hope things go well for u and ur family. i just wish i was able to understand it all when i was little. i'm still finding things out about waht happend. i just found out my mom had an affair and this guy lived w/ us and left suddenly and it was cuz she may have been pregnant. my dad showed me the letter my mom wrote to him admitting it. that was pretty hard to take cuz i found a pic of the guy and i remeber him and when i asked who it was she acts as if she doesn't know who it is and after i asked the pic suddenly disappeared. i know ppl know waht went on. my dad told me who all knew about it. and i feel angry at my mother for hiding it . i mean waht would she have told me or for that matter the rest of us if she would have been pregnant w/ that guys kids. especially me at that age. she has yet to know i know about the letters.

And I thought I had an interesting life!

my parents divorced when I was three, and it is sooooooooo good that they did! They are both so neurotic, they would have made us basket cases!

It all in the end has to do with us, and what we make of ourselves. I had to get off the poor me wagon and get on with my life. I have a great marriage now, a great job, and a boring sometimes, but happy life! And......... I now have you guys as online friends, ..... and........you people have been a really great addition to my life! It is so amazing to be able to share thought with people from everywhere!

Nice to know all of you! :D

Reverse situation with my parents BG, it was my dad (and his mid-life crises) that had the affair...

sorry to hear that arioch. i wish i knew waht else to say to u. it was good to get that all out well in my case it was. but i do hope it goes ok for ur family

and nine9 ur a kool person :D

Well thanks, but we are all cool , having to survive shit that is beyond our control. We have to remember that it is OUR life, and not theirs! We can do whatever we want, and no family problems should effect that if you just believe in yourself! One day I'll have to tell you my freaky working girl story! Dreams CAN come true!

that was very heart felt. and i do believe dreams can come true also if u work hard and don't let any one talk u out of it . u r such a nice girl.

Hmmm...Perhaps he truly believes that he is a dickhead...and so then TECHNICALLY...well...ummm...yeah...:D lol

Hahahaha.

Yes. This is very possible.

Damn...this thread is bringing me down. Ok...my parents never divorced...my mom died when she was 56....stop the smoking kids........my dad died when he was 63.....stop the smoking kids...I have 4 kids....one daughter who will be married this october....I'm still married to my first wife and all is well 23 years later. Commitment...thats what its all about...doesn't seem to be a lot of that going around like it used to.

i'm sorry about ur parents. and congrats to ur daughter. and congrats on ur 23 years of marriage. i was just at a 5oth anni. party for a lady at work and its rare to find couples that have been together for so long