oooooooooh ..the dreaded cell phone bill..

fuck ..i feel you there my friend.

1700$ ...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oh yeah..that was mine :o

i put y children on prepay..
noway in hell was i giving them a contracted phone

I guess that I'll stand in solidarity with Ms. Stubborn. What scared me the most was loosing a child, and I did. So that's my thing. If I ever got pregnant again, I would always be so afraid even when I'm fifty. I don't think I could go through that again.

so sorry to hear sister-boo.

As a parent its always expected that you would go before them...
I never understood the magnitude of my mums heartbreak when
my lil sister passed away.
When i hear shit like..'ooh i know how you feel'..i know they mean well..but unless you have suffered through this..then NO you don't know how I feel'.
The day i buried my child ..was the day i buried a better part of myself.
and everyday i visit the cemetary ..i lose a little more and more each time.
Its hard to actually comprehend the fact that she is gone.
I wrap myself inside her mink blankie like a cocoon everynight.'sigh'

I envy you Stubbs, i'm not sure i could go on after losing a child.My heart goes out to you.

I feel the same way; if I ever lost my Miss Lily I couldn't have another. I never knew how scary this whole mom thing is. I still have to check on her one last time before we go to bed. Everyday I worry that something, usually out of my control, will hurt her. I even put a smoke detector under her crib because there's a cord going under it. I hope I don't smother her in the future, but I just can't think of not protecting her.

To Miss Stubborn and Miss Haunted, I won't say that I know how you feel. I have been fortunate enough to only lose one person that was close to me in my life and that was when I was in the third grade. I have to tell you though that while I feel horribly for you two, I also admire your strength. You two have gone on and continued your lives. I know you still think of the children, but you are also involved in life, and I know the little ones would want that. Not many people can face the world after such tragedy. Be proud of yourselves.

Thank you for that nanchress..

I have to be honest though..my reason for carrying on
is for the sake of my other daughter who seems to be paying the price
for that one day...also from the love of a very supportive man
She thought i was strict then..em much harder now..otherwise..
yes..i wouldve given up .

im no parent but if i lived in the states this would scare the shit out of me if i lived anywhere near it, like 100 miles near it.

http://vulcan.wr.usgs.gov/Volcanoes/...llowstone.html

'Chantress and Stubborn, you know, people say, "It's not alive until, what, the like, maybe, partly through the second trimester." I'm pro-choice, but still, that's a bullshit statement, because, as a mum, you can feel that life almost at the moment of conception. You just know. I knew, I could feel that life, and when it ended, I knew that too. That feeling was the worst feeling I've ever had. Ever.

exactly sister-boo!!

a miscarriage is treated like it doesn't matter..but oh boi..
especially knowing thier is a life growing there and your whole body is making the adjustments to accomodate..what a massive feeling to have that growing baby inside you...
'sigh'...sometimes when my girl plays up ..em like...
ONE MORE YOUNG LADY AND EM SURGICALLY HAVING YOU RETURNED!!

and shes like ...ewwwwwwwww ewwwwwww mum!!

Mine is fast becoming the fear of going to prison for killing some of these dumb ass boys who keep calling my house ALL the time.