Oh trust me...My male friends would NEVER do that...They love their equipment, they love having sex with women, the women love their equipment, and yeah...They would never give up their guns...lol..The guys I know would never even CONSIDER it, and would actually be horrified by the very idea...As a matter of fact, ONE of those guys is quite proud of his endowment

It's really not a 'gay' thing pertaining to THESE guys...A lot of people don't understand that...It's like these guys wanna be lesbians, but with penises...I know that sounds confusing...And people do constantly ask them if they're gay...

I think transvestites are like everybody else.....as long as they're not hurting anyone, what's the big deal? Show some folks a guy in a dress and they automatically start looking for Alfred Hitchcock and a butcher knife, or a bullseye on their ass, or something.

Actually, I really like womens clothes. I like choosing clothes for my girlfriend, but she doesn't like what I choose. :(

I've dressed as a woman for a laugh. Me and my brother are thinking of doing a rocky horror show party, and were argueing over who gets to dress as frankenfurter :D

But, I don't get turned on with it or anything. If any of my mates do, then I don't care. If I called round a mates house and he was dressed as a woman, I wouldn't be offended. I'd laugh my friggin arse off, but I wouldn't avoid him or anything. :D

I may try to catch him on my mobile phone camera though...

that makes me ask why ?

why would you laugh - what would you find funny ?

if the guy did it for sexual reasons and you caught him and laughed - that would be like sticking a knife in the guy ..


i mean .. i'd laugh too ..

Well, they're my mates. We're constantly looking to get one in on each other in that juvenile male way :D

Trust me, if it was me that they found, I'd never hear the end of it.

If I thought that it would genuinely hurt them, then I wouldn't laugh. Or I'd try my damndest not to.

No, really, I would.

Did you just say what I think you just said???

well, he did say 'mate' :D

Men who are heterosexual dressing as women doesn't bother me at all. Somewhere in these posts someone mentioned the brilliant Eddie Izzard, who "fancies women," I'd go out with Eddie.

I have a hard time with transexuals and drag queens though, and because I am, in some ways, part of the gay community I've hung out with both. I don't like the idea of someone trying to be a woman when they're not. (And I'm sure, you guys feel the same about women who want to be men). Being a woman is not just that hole, which on transgender, is artificial, or boobs or make-up, and who's prettier (Rod, I remember you telling us that in one of your experiences dressing up that someone said, "It's not even as if your cute" or something... It pissed me off).

You know, being a woman is about the experiences and processes of womanhood. It's insulting, almost to be reduced to pure phsycial form. It's almost as insulting as hetero men seeing us for our outer self. As I said before, it's probably the same for guys. Being a man is not just the penis, it's all of the processes and experiences of manhood. Like Urge said, there's a big difference, and that's a big difference that no opperation and no amount of make-up, prosthesis, and wishing can change.

Having said that... Homosexuality is not a choice. "Fence sitting," at least for me, is not a choice. I genuinely find both men and women physically attractive, and therefore, for me, love, romantic sexual love- like the kind that gets people married- doesn't come in one flavor.

Let me give you a little excert from Ani Difranco's "In or Out," "Some days the line I walk turns out to be straight/ Other days the line tends to deviate/ I've got no criteria for sex or race/ I just want to hear your voice/ I just want to see your face."

*Groan* I fell straight for that one.

But while I'm at it...

:eek:

Monty Python, Eddie Izzard, Jamie Foxx... all proved that men in dresses are funny. Ok, so maybe not Jaime Foxx.