AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! SAVE ME!!!!!

That's not funny, dude. :(

it is hard - i've moved an insane number of times and usually all over the place (TX, MO, PA, NY and overseas for the odd year here and there). . . the one thing I'll say is that you can never tell how friendships change. . . some of my absolute best friends have totally lost contact with me (including my first real friend - from 2nd grade - who so totally snubbed me that i found out later he moved to Maine and drove RIGHT THROUGH the town where i currently live and even STAYED THE NIGHT HERE without contacting me). . . that said, there are also friends I haven't physically 'seen' in years but i still talk to them on a regular basis. . . its hard, but its life.

Sadly , yes I can relate..
but it just goes to show that ..they weren't really friends at all.
When my 1st husband left me for my bestfriend..(ironic)..
all of our other closest, nearest and dearest pals..followed suit..
Not one tried to contact me to see how i was getting on...in fact they carried on ..as if i never even existed.
That is why to this very day...after all them years, I have never , ever befriended another female in R/L
I now have mates who do 8 hour road trips just to deliver my birthday presents..
True mates who stand by my side , whether em right or wrong..or stick up for me through thick or thin. :D

Wait a minute, when did you live in PA? That's where I live.

LOL...see how unsociable monkies can be :D