I know what all of ya'll are saying and I agree to that, but I'm not talking about coming out to the person and saying "Hey I have feelings for you" blah blah. I'm saying.......well I guess I'm saying I think it's alright to flirt with someone. Just don't take it past that line and end up in a downward spiral of emotions for the both of them.

In your case STE, I would not consider that cheating at all. You didn't act on your feelings, so no harm was done.

You really should talk to this 'other' girl...


Actually...No...lol



I hate to admit it, but I really haven't watched very many movies that aren't horror related.....A few comedies, but otherwise, I'm pretty single-minded that way...

See previous post re: Shot Down

well, i'd have to explain for you to see where i'm coming from ..

I've never dated ..per say.

the thought of going somewhere with someone i dont know just because i liked the way they looked terrified me. I couldn't make it through a meal if the person turned out to be a ding-dong.

the girls i ended up with were friends at first .. i wanted to get to know then under more relaxed circumstances.

If she turned out to be someone i could actually enjoy talking with .. then it would naturely evolve into a relationship.

so if i'm in a relationship and i meet someone else and they have a lot of the qualities i like .. then naturally i would think the person is cool and i could recognize the potential ... but that would be the same or less than what i have now .. so there would be no need or desire to push on with it ...

and honestly - when i was in my 1st marriage and things were going horribly - i never had the desire to cheat then either ... although - believe it or not.. i was offered a wicked chance to.

Damn...

You're just a really good man ;)

i dont think thats it ... i just hate complications :D

lol...Or it could be that...

yeah, sucks, don't it? The Ring movies have an erie parallel to this kind of stuff happening.

The Ring: I mention that I'm going to see the Ring, and JUST before I ask if this girl I like wants to go, she mentions that she's going with her b/f (didn't know she had one) to homecoming

The Ring 2: Shot down right after we left.


There's a sign somewhere in there...

another saving grace is that i'm REALLY fucking fussy about who i want to spend time with.

you wouldnt think i could afford that luxury but i know the reality of being stuck with the wrong person and trying to get out of it...(just relationships - i'm not even talking about the failed marriage)


I'd rather be alone than be with someone i cant communicate with .. and the people i can communicate with at that intimite a level are few and far between.