*blushing*

<3

*seriously ponders farting in this thread again*:D

That seriously ruin all the <3

Okay guys that made me laugh really hard...BUT...I think this may have been why Britt didn't want you males in her 'serous' thread...She asked a question that was difficult for her to ask, because she obviously wanted some real opinions and thoughts on this matter...That said...


Brittany...I understand you COMPLETELY...And as long as you are positive that you can't get pregnant...I actually think that it's a beautiful thing to receive your guy's umm...love...Of course, I also have to add that you shouldn't be having sex at 16 (that is NOT a lecture, it's simply a fact, and you know it, too)...But, you have already done it, and despite what anyone else says, there really is no going back now...So...Just be careful, and I do hope that the two of you are always together:)


*turns...holds nose...steps out of thread satisfied that work here is done*

You two better be careful before you end up with a baby!

LOL! :D

I'm 16 now, I don't want to even be thinking about that stuff O.o *sucks thumb**runs out of thread*

you are 16 and In my opinion you need to wait until you are older to decide on that. You have a long life ahead of you to have sex but it only takes 1 time for you to get pregnant, you just need to wait on that. NO it isnt crazy for you thinking that BUT having unprotected is dangerous.

okay that was my advice now heading back to the horror threads... see ya`ll later

Agree with the afformentioned advice....but must say that people saying your too young, thats a societal standard....you know when you're ready to have sex (and obviously you are)....

But thats NOT to say your ready to be a parent....so use protection, yada yada yada, youve heard it before....

I agree that most guys WANT to do what your describing in this thread, instead of pulling out, but it does raise the risks substancially.....

Just be carefull and keep your head about ya and you'll be fine...

Girl for the love of all things dark, use a fucking condom!!! Pregnanccy is not your only worry. STD's are probably not fun. Also, there's a little something called pre-cum. The penis trickles semen as the process of intercourse occures. Cumming onto your legs can get you pregnant, its not likely but it can happen. You seriously need to read about sex.



Oh and Wicked Lady, you're not thinking about sex because your mama raised you right.

Amen to that.

heheheh........trickling penis...that would make a good name for a band.

Ugh...

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from a psychological point of view, thats not exactly healthy thinking. then again we all have our ways of expressing our love.

anyway sounds like uve been through a lot. the most importnat thing now is to learn from the past so it can better shape tomorrow. always be safe!

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wow, thats been a lot. certainly much more than ive been through, not that id ever try any of those things

just realize no matter what the bad is theres always good in the end. hell even when crap IS happening if you look for it theres always something good too. people can easily point out the shit that happens everyday and tend to ignore the good things.

glad to hear that you have someone that realy love you and that you love back. that certainly helps but no matter what remember you are a very important person in this world, we all are. and if you want to you can rise above your past and be a better person. but its completely up to you to do that.... thats not to say though that we want to do it alone. no one does, but just remmeber yuo never really are alone. im sure yuo have other friends, family, ur bf.. and if all else feels... all us jackasses at HDC (well.. at least some of us anyway)

:D

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Fluff speaks the truth VoB. There is always somebody on here willing to give some advice and lend an ear.You are much to young to be burdened with the troubles of which you speak......wtf...was that english?!?!. Anyway ........and not to sound to cliche there are brighter days to come, and it sounds like you have a caring boyfriend.

how come i already knew that? well hey, you got him and us ok? just make sure u take care of urself ok. you ever need help im sure SOMEONE would be online to at least talk to...

"more kin less than kind"
~Hamlet

Well i want to answer the question from a mans perspective. I would do it......but only if that is truly what she wanted

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well being that this question kinda sorta...involes me....yaa...but umm, yaa, i've read everything everyones said, and understand it all...well except the whole farting sceniaro, but i'm not gonna go there...(:rolleyes: )...she's basically thinking about me 4 this question in general bc c wants me to feel good....and honestly, i've told that she doesn't have to worry about that...although i'm sure it will bring us even closer than we already are, but like mentioned b4, theres the whole schmit to deal with having to do with the "after affects" if that occurs....so i really don't know....we've been careful all the time so i really don't know about that one...i think it'd be safer to wait a couple of years before we go that far, but i don't know

and on the topic of what happend to her....i didn't know her at the time it happend, but i've talked to her about it all the time...luckily she trusted me enough to tell me in the early stages of our friendship b4 we started dating...and i love her soo much that she was able to tell me...i've been helping her get through it and doing basically all that i can to help her b/c of course i don't know first hand how she feels about that....but i just make sure she knows that i'm always going to be there for her when she needs me...and now apparently she's trusted all of you(who read this thread) to know this.....so maybe it'll get other points in to help her work that out...i'm doing all that i can to make sure she knows how much i truly love her, because i do...and honstly, if i could i would already marry her(go ahead stomp on me with the "Your still young" BS)...but thats how i feel...i'm in love with her and want to spend the rest of my life with her...and ahead of time, from me and brit...thanx 4 all the opinions in here(except the farting....enough of that, go get taco bell and fart somewhere else)

This thread got, all serious and stuff.

...that was kinda the original attept, but than farting occured....:rolleyes: :confused:

Its just an unfortunate fact of life. :)

thats sweet of you that you are there for her and i think it is good to always be friends first before dating. i always said tohugh theres no reason to rush anything.

anyway im here and im sure others are. its nice to have more than just 1 person that u can talk to because yuo can get other viewpoints.

glad to know though that she really does have someone special in her life to help her along...

thats how i am although before it was as though i really 'needed' someone, like id die. but i have been single for several months now. something that i needed and actually i feel very comofrtable alone and have been really happy actually. guess ive grown stronger or some junk

that doesnt mean that u 2 cant grow stronger together though. :)

unfortunate? or blessed?

:D we need to fart, dont want to explode do we!!

and on a lighter note (har har -smokers joke) ....

I FARTED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol :D....i gotta lighten it up im sorry for being so serious but i did want a serious answer to my question.

You sound like you have your shit together Lucid. Many at your age don't. [ I sure as hell didn't at that age ] VoB is lucky to have found such an understanding and caring young lad.






lad.....where did that word derive from?

i dont nkow. but i DO know that punk and okay are both native american terms..

PRETTY CRAZY ISNT IT?/

lad to me sounds european... im probbaly way off though

I looked it up.

Middle English ladde, perhaps of Scandinavian origin.

I thought lad was Scottish.......:confused:

See how these post can go off in any direction.












pfftttttttt.......excuse me....I farted.

hey.. i said european didnt i?

woo woo!!!!!!!!

We say lad down here in Aussie

Well....doesn't that just throw a monkey wrench into the whole european-scandinavian scenario.

Its not that common, its only really a select few young boys that say it. hehe kinda like english "lads"

I feel like making some hot passionate love right about now. Home alone on a friday night :(

importantly the ORIGINS were in europe... it being in aussie could just mean some european moving down there.

hehe.. monkey wrench

me too. but its of my own choosing so :)

I might call my lady friend later. Even though she cant do anything(or says she cant)....